RESPECT is nothing, which is only for Ems here. I have no problem, if you criticise my way I see things. I have no problem to be warned by a member of staff for "verbal errors", I have no problem, if you have another sence of humour.
But I have definitly something against the fact to be called a pedophile, even with a "joke".
Maybe you do not know the correct definition for a "pedophile", so let me broaden your horizons a bit.
As a medical diagnosis, pedophilia, or paedophilia, is a psychiatric disorder in persons 16 years of age or older typically characterized by a primary or exclusive sexual interest toward prepubescent children (generally age 11 years or younger, though specific diagnosis criteria for the disorder extends the cut-off point for prepubescence to age 13). In popular usage, pedophilia means any sexual interest in children or the act of child sexual abuse, often termed "pedophilic behavior".
Please understand, that I cannot accept it to be called a "pedo" only because I am at my age a fan of a 23 year old (adult!) woman, I will never meet in person. My girlfriend is 26. And I don't think that she sees a "pedo" in me.
And "Shades of Grey". The stuff is ment to make fun out of it. Laugh about it or jump to another thread. It is sooooo easy.