The fandom is like a big ball of timey-wimey wibbly-wobbly stuff. Quite diverse. By and large, though, with just the teensiest bit of guidance here and there, the fandom does respect her privacy. Big time. Respectacular.
I'm sorry, I didn't hear the rest of your post over the sound of me falling in love with you.
I don't know much about her boyfriend other than that he has a flair for colourful garments and that makes me like him automagically. Also, I've created an alter-ego for him. But I digress.
P.S. Emma's PR team *is* fabulous. Because she DOES stay super private with her personal life, and most rumours about her are false or based purely off speculation. That is what PR is SUPPOSED to do- protect her interests as much as they promote her work.