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Joanne P.

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  1. I told my boyfriend two years ago, it wasn't easy but it helped, a little. The thing is, he is very sweet and helpful but he just doesn't see the point of doing all this. He eats when he is hungry and that's it. SO he can't really understand... But now I feel more like speaking about it to friends, only when I do, I say that it is over, which is not really true... I'm getting better, kind of growing up actually, but it's not over. My best hope is that I have been able to start exercising again a few weeks ago, and even if I can't do everything I practiced before, I feel better in my body.

     

    Thanks for your answer, it is good to hear about people who have been in trouble but are not into this anymore :)

  2. Well, I think they were asked to look closer than they were really ro promote the movies. I do believe that Emma And Dan are very good friends, though, but Rupert has always seemed to be the "different" guy. He hasn't the same hobbies and all, I think, even if I don't know much about him. He doesn't look for fame that much as well, he seems to be hesitating much more than the two others.

     

    But actually, there's nothing wrong with them not being that close. You can share a lot with someone during a while and then don't keep in touch. It happens all the time

  3. Thanks Arie ! I feel good these days, it's an "up" week ;) Can't wait to be tomorrow ! also I cut my hair today and I asked the hairdresser about short haircuts and she told me it could be nice on me :) I've been dreaming of short hair for a long time, I think I will do this when it's not so cold anymore ! I don't know how to thank you because you just told me the one thing I needed, you kind of "unlocked" my mind !

  4. Same, I never tried because I am afraid I wouldn't be able to stop, which is kind of stupid because I just hate the smell and all, but after all, I don't see why I should try to overcome this fear. I know it's bad for one's health and I don't like seeing my people smoking, but other things are bad such as alcohol, etc. And if I don't smoke, I can't pretend I have never drunk. But I think it would be hard to share my life with a smoker, even if he was careful.

     

    To answer you junkie, I often ask people (at least my friends and relatives) not to smoke too close to me. If you ask it kindly then I don't see why it would be wrong. Just avoid to be moralistic.

  5. First thanks to you because I implemented your advice today wearing a hat I bought last week and everybody told me it was great :) And you were right, I felt good all day because I felt like people were seing me as I really am !

     

    And I bought my shoes this morning, they are simple (I saw a couple of pairs I liked too but these ones were cheaper and I couldn't really afford the others) but I like them, I'm not very into sophisticated clothes or accessories.

     

    and my dress looks like this one, but in red :

     

  6. Thanks Arie ! You are definitively someone I would ask an advice ! Because you speak my language :) I love the way you explain how to change slowly, it felt so easy when I read it :wub:

     

    These days are hard for me because all the girls are talking about their dresses and everything and I really feel like I won't be able to make it... But I don't want to be the prettiest, just to have fun without comparing me with every girl I will see.

     

    Again, thanks ! Tomorrow I'll go looking for these shoes, I'll show you a picture if I find them :)

  7. thanks to all, apparently you all agree about the ballet flats ! I think if I can find some black ones it will be perfect because I don't wear this kind of shoes very often, but in black I could wear them with a lot of other dresses.

     

    I sometimes feel comfortable in my clothes but the point is, even if I make efforts people keep on thinking that I'm a tom boy which was OK when I was 12 but now I'm tired of hearing that. And I will certainly not change my whole style for these people, but I'd like some advice about how I could "let them know" that hey, I'm a girl and let me breathe ! Because I have issues with the way I perceive my body, I have eating disorders and it doesn't help (before I was very self confident, now not that much).

     

    For example, I bought a red lipstick a few months ago and I never dared to wear it while I love it ! And I don't really know when/with what I can wear it.

  8. Apparently it exists here in France too, but that kind of sites is illegal here I believe, because yes, on a side you have freedom of speech. But on the other side, this site is simply defamatory (and in a very rude way). I reckon this is a major difference between the USA and France : you let things go because to you, freedom of speech has almost no limits (I by things I mean it can be racist, or homophobic words). We TRY to apply "your freedom stops when your neighbour's begins".

     

    It's hard, though, to define this limit (well, sometimes it's not, it's obvious that you can't call someone names, to me at least), and I'm not saying we have the right way to proceed. It's just that, as a French girl, I am sometimes surprised to hear that someone who said racist things to someone else is discharged in the name of freedom of speech. It distorts this concept in my opinion, because it wasn't made to allow people to be mean to their fellows but to make sure all opinions (especially in politics, religion...) would be represented and that paople wouldn't be threatened just by expressing them.

     

    Well, I'm a bit out of the subject but I add that I know a guy who likes informatics and who made a site where you could gossip and criticize people from his former high school (it was stupid in my opinion but my boyfriend was just impressed about the way he made it <_< ), and he had to remove it quickly because he was about to get in trouble with our justice system.

     

    Anyway, it makes me sad to see that some guys don't have better things to do than saying awful things about people they don't even know in some cases. I mean, what's the point ?

  9. Hi everybody !

     

    Everything in the title, to me fashion is unattainable, and I'd like it to change, because I'm kind of interested in it now. I want to be me, to feel comfortable in my clothes, not to be ashamed of my appearance. So, as I know you are all very into fashion, I want to ask you a few questions.

     

    First, I have a gala on Friday and I will wear a red dress, quite short. I can't wear heels, what's your advice ? Thanks a lot ! I'll

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